But we need to back up to the night before! And the day of! (which I unfortunately have little to no pictures of) Like I mentioned, the night before we were busy decorating and we also made a Costco run to get flowers because we were putting together the bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres for the important people! It was a late night...!
As Andrew and I had not yet finalized the program for the family dinner with Shan (we were the MCs), I popped over to her house the morning of and just ran everything by her while she was getting ready. That was fun to watch for a bit and they even made me breakfast! I also had a little book that I had made with wedding advice/nice things about Shan that I had had people write in the days before which I took over - bad idea - she almost cried and wrecked her makeup!! Then I had to rush home and get myself and Charlie ready. I was so busy the day and night before that I didn't have time to shower and thus looked horrible in all the wedding day pictures - sorry Shan for ruining your pictures - but really, who cares that I looked bad? It only mattered that Shan looked good!
We headed over to the temple at 10:30 to be there for the ceremony at 11am. Daniel was nice enough to look after Charlie while the ceremony happened and apparently Charlie was a good boy which was lucky for him! And then they were married.... I probably cried the most out of anyone in the sealing room and added ruined makeup to the unwashed hair... oh dear... I got to go into the brides room with Shans mom and sister to help her get ready to go outside (I really didn't do anything to help) but I did go out and announce she was coming!
Shanon and Alex Schacher were then presented to the people waiting outside and it was so exciting! Seriously all that day and even on a fairly regular basis now I say to myself "I can't believe they're finally(or sometimes I say actually) married!" hahaha
We took a bunch of pictures and then while we were doing so it started raining!
 |
| This is one of the only pictures I have of the day and we had an ulterior motive in getting it! We needed to iron it onto the quilt we made them in-between pictures and the ring ceremony - it was a hectic day! (Shannon's mom made her dress - didn't she do an amazing job?) |
Luckily Shannon's mom had booked a place to take pictures indoors since it was forecast to rain, so off we went to some building (I forget which one) to take more pictures. It was a neat building with a little indoor forest and stream. We also managed to take a few pictures in-between rain bursts outside as well. Then we (the bridesmaids and groomsmen) were free to go while Shannon and Alex had more pictures taken of just the two of them.
So off we rushed to go home and finish off the quilt - it was a team effort - I printed off the picture, Andrew ironed it on and my mom sewed the bottom onto the quilt! LaNae also had to put together a playlist for the reception and all of us bridesmaids had to practise the song "June Bride" (from Seven Brides of Seven Brothers) for the first and last times, which we were singing at the family dinner. Oh my we were busy in the hour we had! Then we had to take a few more things over for the decorations and put up signs (which we didn't have up fast enough and people were coming in the wrong entrance!!) Then it was on to the ring ceremony!
The ring ceremony was down by the lake and Alex had made a giant wooden pergola and a bunch of wooden benches for the guests to sit on, it was very picturesque. I never thought I'd walk into a wedding (kinda like they do in movies and non-mormon weddings) but I got to here with the rest of the bridesmaids and groomsmen, and I even had to hold Shans bouquet while the ring ceremony was going on. Their bishop did a little speech, Shan and Alex said their vows to one another, then Shans little nephews brought the rings and it was just so romantic.
There were a bunch of little things to do while people visited by the lake after the ceremony and before the family dinner. We had to fill up the popcorn and candy containers, make labels, get things organized up front for the ceremony, bring in a piano, bring in the pergola to go above the cake (that one was tricky - the thing is huge! Luckily there were lots of strong men there to help!)
In my opinion Andrew and I were the worst Mcs in the world! They made us do it to get revenge - we had Shannon and Alex for our Mcs at our wedding (because we wanted them to have to spend time together so they could fall in love.... it happened, but many years later.... but that's where it all started.... so really, they shouldn't have been trying to get revenge but should have been showering us with gifts and money and promises of their firstborn! hahaha) I wish I had the program here so I could add a bit of what was in it, but I'll try and do it from memory.
To start off, Ben introduced the members of the wedding party as we entered in the gym. Then we had questions (about Shannon and Alex) that people had to answer in order to be able to go get their dinner from the buffet. (In no particulate order...) There were musical numbers by Shans sister Lindsey, by the bridesmaids, as well as by Ann. There were speeches from the groomsmen and the bridesmaids. The shoe game was played, cake was cut, Andrew and I did our maid of honour/best man speeches and presented them with the photo quilt we (mostly I) made, and there was a tribute to the bride by Shans brother Dave. Shans family and Alex's family both did welcomes and then Shan and Alex did their little speeches and that was about it! Its quite possible I'm forgetting some things but oh well.
 |
| Our oh-so-impressive photo quilt! So tired at this point... |
Then it was over. On to the reception! There was little shuffling to be done, like setting up the popcorn bar and travel photo booth. There was a steady stream of people the whole night - Shannon and Alex are super popular people! I manned the photo booth and the popcorn bar for a little bit, then had to run home to get the going away kit I put together for them. Everyone I have talked to agrees that when it's your reception you don't have time to eat and then you get to the hotel and you're starving! So I just put together some little snacks, treats and sparkling juice for them. (Which they didn't end up needing that night because they were smart and got a bunch of the reception food to take with them! But I have it on good authority that they ate it the next day on their drive to Fairmont for their honeymoon)
There was a little dance at the end of the reception with their first dance and then it was over around 9pm and they were off! It's amazing how much less time it takes to clean up as opposed to setting up! Even so we were there until 11pm and Shans parents and sister and brother-in-law were still there when we left!
All-in-all in was a really good day. Andrew and I had worked for so long to try and get those two together and sometimes we got in the way, but eventually it worked out in the end. (Of course most of the effort was on their part... obviously....but I like to think we put a lot of effort in too! hahahaha) And I'm really glad we got to be there for it.